People really need to get a grip. They will complain about how they owe child support, alimony,etc. They forget that they helped create that life and just because they thought the grass was greener on the other side does not mean they should forget their responsibilities or court orders. They will constantly complain about the ex, when if they did what was agreed to they wouldn't have their license suspended or go to jail. It is so sad that you have to force people to grow up and be responsible. Don't forget about the innocent parties that are stuck in the middle. Life is how you make it with the choices good or bad.